Flashback to 2010

A friend calls me –

I just wanted to tell you *** a girl I know is starting work at ****’s place.

Oh ok?! I’m getting a warning why?

She’s a nightmare. She slept with her best friends boyfriend at college, she seems to attach herself to attached men. She doesn’t like women. Just keep an eye out.

Flash forward to this last year.

They are good friends

I feel sorry for her as she doesn’t make friends easily.

They share a few interests – I’ve always been a true believer that you should not stop your partner being friends with the opposite sex. I think it shows a lack of trust.

Since this has happened I have started to rethink this.

If I ever meet anyone in the future I don’t think I would put up with this again.

I don’t think I will ever trust anyone again.

I’ve realised promises are just words that fall out of people’s mouths – pretty words that mean nothing.